Small funerals explained

New funeral trends show that people are increasingly choosing small funerals, with simple and dignified services.

Instead of masses of people coming to a funeral service - with all the fanfare of a traditional funeral, a small funeral offers the option to have only a few close family and friends in attendance.

Additionally, a small funeral (sometimes referred to as an 'intimate funeral') is a less costly way to say goodbye, leaving those grieving without the worry of hidden extra costs.

Can I have just a small funeral?

Yes, smaller, more intimate services can be a meaningful way to say goodbye, particularly for those who preferred things to be low-key.

Keeping the ceremony small allows for a quieter, more personal atmosphere, shared only with those closest to you.

An intimate service may include a private gathering with a limited number of attendees, offering space for reflection, conversation, and personal remembrance. For many families, this simplicity brings comfort during a difficult time.

Some people also choose to plan ahead for a smaller service of their own, ensuring their wishes are known and easing the decision-making for loved ones in the future. Planning in advance can provide reassurance and clarity, while still allowing flexibility for personal touches.

Why have a private funeral?

For some families, a small funeral makes saying goodbye feel more private and personal. With fewer people present, there can be more space to reflect, remember and grieve in your own way. Others find comfort in a larger gathering, surrounded by everyone who knew and loved the person who has died, and that's just as valid. There's no right or wrong choice, only what feels right for you, your family and the person you're saying goodbye to.

What does a small funeral involve?

An intimate funeral allows a small group of close friends and family to spend a short, private time together in a chapel setting. Those attending are given the opportunity to reflect quietly or say a few words.

These smaller funerals are designed to be straightforward and uncomplicated, covering the essential practical arrangements. This typically includes completion of necessary paperwork, collection from the place of death, dignified care at mortuary facilities, provision of a simple coffin, and transportation to the crematorium.

This type of funeral doesn't usually include a formal ceremony or structured service, giving families the flexibility to personalise the occasion if they wish. 

At Simplicity, our simple attended cremation, The Simple Celebration, is designed for exactly this kind of farewell. It includes a 20-minute family-led service at the crematorium for up to 25 guests, with time for music, readings and tributes. Services take place before 10am or after 4:30pm, Monday to Friday (excluding bank holidays), and a chapel attendant will be there to look after everything on the day. 

Simplicity also offers a direct cremation option, The Essential Cremation, an unattended funeral with no mourners present for those who would prefer no service. 

As organising a funeral can feel overwhelming, guidance and support are usually available from the outset. A single point of contact can help families begin the process, answer questions, and provide reassurance at any time.

Throughout, care and dignity remain the priority, ensuring the person who has died is treated with respect, while those left behind are supported with access to bereavement advice.

Clear information is provided so families understand what to expect, helping them make decisions with confidence and peace of mind.

When it comes to arranging a funeral, taking things one step at a time can make the process feel more manageable. With the right support in place, families can focus on making arrangements that feel appropriate, while knowing the practical details are being handled with care.

If you'd like to plan a small funeral in advance, our Simple Celebration Plan includes the same 20-minute family-led service, for £2,400 when paid in full or £2,500 over 24 month instalments.

If you need support arranging a funeral or are interested in an affordable funeral plan, contact us today.